pam on Nostr: i was trying to look up for the conversation we had last on this but might be a long ...

i was trying to look up for the conversation we had last on this but might be a long time back - bunking in on this note.

I was just wondering, would there be an easier way where i can have my relay that just stores my data (notes and messages (sent and received)) and all other relays can be used as your transmitter. Some benefits :
- It would lessen the need of my computer - i wouldn't need some massive server capacity to run a relay.
- And if i need to sync up between my phone and computer, we can use Will's idea.
- I don't have to depend on other relays to store/ clear data.
- I can delete whatever I have written.
- I have control over my data.
- If i need more storage for videos etc then either i increase my own capacity or use other relays (free/private)

From a user perspective, it would be easier is users just need to assume it works like installing an app to install the operation to run your own relay.

I haven't fully thought through this yet and I don't know enough - but just a thought