Actually Pokey also seems like an interesting solution if you decide to *not* install any other Nostr app on your phone: just get the notification without getting trapped, and put off any activity until when you are at your PC.
KoalaSat (npub1v3t…yvjh) maybe you could think about some specific features for this use case, for example the possibility to pin a notification and snoze it, ora add a short note.