Eluc on Nostr: She didn't ask you to sell for fiat, but sell for housing, cars, expensive clothes, ...

She didn't ask you to sell for fiat, but sell for housing, cars, expensive clothes, restaurants, holidays,...
You should better explain differently. "Do you prefer some expensive stuff now for the next few months or in ten years for the rest of our life?"

This should convince her, then you have extra time to plan and convince her she doesn't need these stuff.